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2 Timothy 2:2

And the things that thou hast heard of me among many witnesses, the same commit thou to faithful men, who shall be able to teach others also.

 
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INL March 7,2003
SOUNDING OUT:
Love’s Request: Asking for Rest

 Naomi and Ruth have been blessed throughout the harvest time. Naomi’s response to Ruth’s lovingkindness and hard work on her behalf is in chapter three where she orchestrates the performance of the duty of the kinsman-redeemer.

Ruth 3:1:
Then Naomi her mother in law said [amar]1st unto her, My daughter, shall I not seek rest for thee [Remember 1:9?], that it may be well with thee?

  Naomi wants the best for Ruth so she wants to arrange a marriage for her. This phrase “that it may be well with thee” occurs five times in the King James Version.

Deuteronomy 6:1-3,17,18:
Now these are the commandments, the statutes, and the judgments, which the LORD your God commanded to teach you, that ye might do them in the land whither ye go to possess it:
That thou mightest fear the LORD thy God, to keep all his statutes and his commandments, which I command thee, thou, and thy son, and thy son’s son, all the days of thy life; and that thy days may be prolonged.
Hear therefore, O Israel, and observe to do it; that it may be well with thee, and that ye may increase mightily, as the LORD God of thy fathers hath promised thee, in the land that floweth with milk and honey….
Ye shall diligently keep the commandments of the LORD your God, and his testimonies, and his statutes, which he hath commanded thee.
And thou shalt do that which is right and good in the sight of the LORD: that it may be well with thee, and that thou mayest go in and possess the good land which the LORD sware unto thy fathers,

  Naomi expected the best for Ruth because she knew her daughter-in-law was diligent to observe and do the law. (Remember the blessing she spoke in 1:8?) Naomi was aware of Ruth’s adherence to one commandment in particular.

Deuteronomy 5:16:
Honour thy father and thy mother, as the LORD thy God hath commanded thee; that thy days may be prolonged, and that it may go well with thee, in the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.

  God gave us His Word so things would go well for us in life. In His Word, He declared His will, which is always good, acceptable, and perfect. It is a lamp unto our feet and a light unto our path. When we meditate upon it and order our steps in it, we will have “good success.”

  In chapter one God caused Naomi to return to Bethlehem by getting His Word to her. In chapter two, the Word provided the basis for Ruth to go into the field of Boaz to glean. We will see as we get into chapter three, that the Word will provide the basis for the request Ruth will make of Boaz.

  Naomi wants things to go well for Ruth so she has devised a plan according to the law regarding the kinsman-redeemer. She has seen things develop over the course of time she has been in Bethlehem, and God is working in her heart. She doesn’t simply wait passively for things to happen, she seizes the opportunity when it presents itself. When God opens doors for us we must recognize them and be willing to walk through them. God frequently carries out his work through believers who take hold of unexpected opportunities.

Ruth 3:2:
And now is not Boaz of our kindred, with whose maidens thou wast? Behold, he winnoweth barley to night in the threshingfloor.

  Here is that figure of speech, asterismos, again. It provides the foundation upon which Naomi’s plan of verses 3 and 4 is based. If he is not there, the plan will not work. This is the occasion for which Naomi had been waiting. It has arrived, and it is now time to act. Naomi now discloses her plan to Ruth.

  It was the custom in Bible times for parents to arrange marriages for their children, and Naomi resolves to seek rest and security for her daughter-in-law, Ruth, in marriage. Boaz was near of kin and could perform the responsibility of a kinsman-redeemer. He was a God-fearing man who had shown great kindness to Ruth already.

Ruth 3:3,4:
Wash thyself therefore, and anoint thee, and put thy raiment upon thee, and get thee down to the floor: but make not thyself known unto the man, until he shall have done eating and drinking.
And it shall be, when he lieth down, that thou shalt mark the place where he shall lie, and thou shalt go in, and uncover his feet, and lay thee down; and he will tell thee what thou shalt do.

  When winnowing barley the grain was taken to the threshing floor, which was usually the highest point on the property, where there was a good, strong wind. By bringing the grain to the high point for threshing, it allowed the wind to carry the chaff away as the workers winnowed it. They would end up with two piles. The closer one contains the grain, and the one further downwind the chaff. The grain was garnered, and the chaff was burned.

  On the last night of the harvest, the owner would throw a party for all the workers, to celebrate the end of harvest. They would party and go home the next morning. It would be a great time of rejoicing together, with singing, dancing, and eating. When the night was finished, some would lie beside the mounds of grain in order to protect it from thieves. The owner himself, would typically stay there all night, in order to protect his investment.

  Naomi, knowing the custom that Boaz would be sleeping at the threshing floor to secure the harvest, instructs Ruth to go to the threshing floor and keep her presence hidden. Other female servants who had worked the harvest may have been there, but remember, Ruth was not a servant. She really had no right to be there. Naomi wanted to seize this opportunity, while the heart of Boaz was rejoicing because of the end of harvest.

  Naomi instructed Ruth to wash, perfume, and dress herself, and go to the celebration keeping herself hid from Boaz until he slept. Then she was to go uncover his feet and lay there. Naomi’s final instructions were to do whatever Boaz asked her to do.

Ruth 3:5:
And she said [amar]2nd unto her, All that thou sayest [amar]3rd unto me I will do.

  Ruth agreed to do all that Naomi told her. That’s obedience out of love. She then proceeds according to the plan and does as Naomi has instructed.

Ruth 3:6,7:
And she went down unto the floor, and did according to all that her mother in law bade her.
And when Boaz had eaten and drunk, and his heart was merry, he went to lie down at the end of the heap of corn: and she came softly, and uncovered his feet, and laid her down. [Whatever it means “to uncover the feet,” it happened while Boaz slept.]

  Some teach that what Ruth did was immoral and that she was offering herself to Boaz sexually. That was not what she was doing. Why did she have to watch and remember the place where he laid down? Because there were other people there that night too, and she had to make sure she laid at the feet of the right one. Had Boaz not been a man of such great integrity perhaps he would have taken advantage of the situation. However, the covering of oneself with the skirt or mantle was a ceremonial act that was completely proper.

Ruth 3:8,9:
And it came to pass at midnight, that the man was afraid [startled], and turned himself: and, behold, a woman lay at his feet.
And he said [amar]4th Who art thou? And she answered [amar]5th, I am Ruth thine handmaid: spread therefore thy skirt over thine handmaid; for thou art a near kinsman.

  Ruth completely followed Naomi’s direction, and when Boaz awoke startled, he asked who it was that was at his feet. Ruth responded humbly and asked him to perform the responsibility of a kinsman-redeemer. Ruth’s coming to him at night under the cover of darkness was so that no one knew of her petition of Boaz. This way, if Boaz was not interested in performing the duty of the kinsman-redeemer, he could decline without the whole town knowing about it.

  Ruth requested that Boaz spread his skirt over her. People frequently misunderstand Ruth’s actions thinking that she is propositioning him. However, that is not the case, Boaz understood what she was doing. She was asking for his protection and covering in marriage. The Hebrew words translated “to spread your covering over your maid” are an idiom referring to marrying. (TDOT p.231)

  What is often missed is Ruth’s allusion to Boaz’s blessing of 2:12. “Skirt” is the Hebrew, kanaph, which is translated “wing” in 2:12. Ruth was reminding him of his gracious words of blessing, “The LORD recompense thy work, and a full reward be given thee of the LORD God of Israel, under whose wings thou art come to trust.” He was right; she had come to trust in Jehovah and His righteous law. Now, she calls his attention to the responsibility of the next of kin and requests that he do the part of the kinsman-redeemer according to that law which they both reverenced. The Lord’s provision not only provided for gleaning, but for redemption for her by a kinsman-redeemer. Ruth has done her part in making the request, but how would Boaz respond?

  We’ll see that in just a minute. But, first I want to look at why she chose to sleep at his feet and cover herself with the fringe of his garment.

  The reason for choosing to sleep at his feet was to cover herself with the extremity of the garment which would be where the hem was. The hem of the garment was very significant in the East. It was where things were sown to identify the authority of the family. Perhaps it’s a bit similar to the Scottish kilts which identified the clan. However, it was also where insignias of authority were worn. In our culture we do it on the sleeve. Military men and police wear their rank on their sleeves. When I was in high school the custom was for athletes who lettered in a varsity sport to wear letter sweaters. We added stripes on the sleeve for each year we lettered and for all-conference, all-county, and all-state honors.

  Boaz was not embarrassed or offended by her request. He recognized that she acted within her rights according to the law and the custom of the law.

Ruth 3:10:
And he said [amar],6th Blessed be thou of the LORD, my daughter (a reminder of their age difference): for thou hast shewed more kindness [chesed] (third occurrence 1:8; 2:20) in the latter end (right now by doing this) than at the beginning (when I meet you in the field and spoke the blessing you just alluded to), inasmuch as thou followedst [yalak, go/went after] not young men (he had thought that she perhaps could have done better in getting a younger man), whether poor or rich.

  Every action Ruth took was guided by the Word. She didn’t go after young men, she went after God through His Word. Remember James 4:2? “Ye have not because ye ask not.” Ruth asked for Boaz to do the part of the kinsman redeemer according the law of Moses, the Word of God. What would Boaz’s response be?

Ruth 3:11,12:
And now, my daughter, fear not; I will do to thee all that thou requirest [amar]7th for all the city of my people doth know that thou art a virtuous woman. (There is no indication that he took advantage of the situation. Would she still be a virtuous woman had he done as some suggested that he did?)
And now it is true that I am thy near kinsman: howbeit there is a kinsman nearer than I.

  Instead of taking advantage of the situation as some may have done, he recognizes her loyalty to Naomi and her kindness to act to care for her elder mother-in-law. Not only was she willing to work heartily in the fields gleaning, she was willing to marry an older man, Boaz, in order to redeem Naomi’s land and provide for her mother-in-law. Ruth’s action to fulfill her responsibility to her first husband Mahlon and keep the family name of Elimelech alive was very honorable in the eyes of Boaz.

  Boaz described her action as a kindness. Boaz had no right to approach Ruth with the idea of redeeming Elimelech’s land. The law stated that the only way for the land to be redeemed was for Ruth, the wife of the dead man, to ask him to do so. If Boaz had been the nearest kinsman who was responsible to do so and he forfeited the claim and refused her, the law required that they both go to the gate and in front of witnesses, Ruth would slap his face, spit on him and he would then be required to take off his shoe, as a symbol of shame, and to give it to the woman and he would have to walk around for one week wearing only one shoe. Ruth wanted to save Boaz this embarrassment and shame should he want to decline. The sandal would become the title deed for redeeming the land and the marriage license for redeeming the widow of the dead.

  However, Boaz receives her proposal with gladness, and it is obvious that he had been thinking about Ruth’s situation because he was aware of someone else who had a closer claim than he. What a twist in the plot. Everything had been going so well; we could see the love story develop so beautifully. However, at the very point she makes the request, she learns of a problem. Boaz pledges to follow through and commits to bring the matter to a resolve the next day.

Ruth 3:13a:
Tarry this night, and it shall be in the morning, that if he will perform unto thee the part of a kinsman, well; let him do the kinsman’s part: but if he will not do the part of a kinsman to thee, then will I do the part of a kinsman to thee, as the LORD liveth:

  Put a period there. As surely as the Lord was a living God, Boaz vowed to do the part of the kinsman-redeemer if he was afforded the opportunity. For Boaz not to follow through on his commitment after invoking the Lord’s name would have been a transgression of the third commandment (Exodus 20:7).

Ruth 3:13b,14:
…lie down until the morning.
And she lay at his feet until the morning: and she rose up before one could know another. And he said [amar],8th Let it not be known that a woman came into the floor.

  Boaz continued to act responsibly. He did not send her home in the middle of the night, but rather he had her wait until early morning when it was safer. He did not and would not touch her until she could be rightfully his. He recognized and protected the right of her nearer kinsman to perform after the custom of the law. However, it was important to keep this secret so that no one would know that Boaz was interested in performing as a kinsman-redeemer. Although nothing improper had happened, the last thing they needed was gossip. But, before she left, Boaz sent a pledge to Naomi.

Ruth 3:15:
Also he said [amar],9th Bring the vail that thou hast upon thee, and hold it. And when she held it, he measured six measures of barley, and laid it on her: and she went into the city.

  Boaz puts six measures of barley into her vail and helps her place it on top of her head. That’s how women carried their burdens in those days. So, Ruth returns to her mother-in-law to report back on the developments and to deliver the barley. The barley was a pledge from Boaz to Naomi that she would be provided for in the future, and that her matchmaking efforts were appreciated.

Ruth 3:16,17:
And when she came to her mother in law, she said [amar],10th Who art thou, my daughter? And she told her all that the man had done to her.
And she said [amar],11th These six measures of barley gave he me; for he said [amar]12th to me, Go not empty unto thy mother in law. (Boaz wanted her to know how thankful he was for her efforts.)

  Naomi knew Boaz was committed and would not rest until the matter was resolved. Boaz was a man of honor and would fulfill his promise. Naomi and Ruth had done all that they could. They would rest and wait patiently for the Lord.

Ruth 3:18:
Then said [amar]13th she, Sit still, my daughter, until thou know how the matter will fall: for the man will not be in rest, until he have finished the thing this day.

  Naomi interprets for us here what the six measures meant. She understood it as a sign, a pledge, indicating a commitment on Boaz’s part to resolve the situation. Boaz had given his word to Ruth and now sent the grain as a pledge to Naomi. Why six measures? What did God do after the six days of creation? He rested from all His work. Naomi understood the measures to signify rest. It was a token to the women to rest in Boaz’s pledge to redeem them. They should rest for Boaz acting in their place would not rest until it would be resolved that day.

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